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Media Literacy a Step-by Step Exercise

TANJA BULATOVIC
September 6, 2024

Teens

How to Use Media Literacy to Boost Your Teen Daughter's Confidence

In today's digital age, our teens are constantly bombarded with images and messages that can impact their self-esteem and self-image. As parents, it’s crucial to equip our daughters with the tools to critically evaluate what they see and understand the often unrealistic portrayals of beauty presented by the media. This not only helps them build self-confidence but also encourages a healthier relationship with their own bodies and appearances.

One effective way to do this is through a Media Literacy Exercise, which you can do together with your daughter. Here’s a simple and engaging method to get started:

Step 1: Create a Comfortable Setting

Choose a relaxed, cozy spot in your home, perhaps with some snacks and drinks. Let your daughter know that this is a time for open conversation, not a lecture. The goal is to share and learn together.

Step 2: Select Media to Watch

Pick a TV show, movie, or social media content that’s popular with teens and has clear examples of beauty standards. This could be a reality TV show, music video, or the Instagram feed of a well-known influencer. It might be something your daughter already enjoys or a new choice you both explore together.

Step 3: Observe and Take Notes

As you watch, pay attention to how beauty and appearance are portrayed. Look for signs of unrealistic beauty standards, such as flawless skin, perfect hair, or exaggerated body types. You might notice the use of filters, makeup, or digital alterations. Make notes of these observations to discuss later.

Step 4: Discuss What You’ve Seen

After watching, talk about the unrealistic standards you've noticed. Share your thoughts and ask your daughter about her feelings. Has she ever felt pressured to look a certain way because of what she sees in the media? This discussion can help her recognize that these portrayals are often not real and are designed to sell products or create unattainable ideals.

Step 5: Encourage Critical Thinking

Encourage your daughter to think critically about the media she consumes. Suggest that she ask herself questions like, “Is this image real, or has it been edited?” or “Why is this person being shown this way?” This habit of questioning can help her understand that real beauty isn’t about fitting into a specific mold but being true to oneself.

Step 6: Reassure and Support

Finally, reassure your daughter. Talk about the importance of valuing real beauty, which comes in all shapes and sizes. Emphasize that true beauty is about confidence, kindness, and authenticity. Thank her for sharing her thoughts and let her know you’re proud of her for thinking critically. Most importantly, remind her that you’re always there to talk about anything that makes her feel unsure or pressured by the media.

By engaging in this Media Literacy Exercise, you’re not just helping your daughter develop critical thinking skills; you’re also fostering a deeper connection and open communication. This shared activity can empower her to see beyond the superficial and appreciate the real, unique beauty within herself and others. Let’s raise our daughters to be confident, self-aware, and, indeed, unstoppable.

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